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My Finished Project

I finished the photo book of our New Year’s Trip to the Cabin. It’s titled “A New Year’s Trip to the Cabin”. Genius, I know. I edited the original book for publishing on this blog to protect privacy.

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I am finding that creating photo books is the easiest and cheapest way to preserve memories. I have made pages in Picasa and uploaded them to print at Persnickety Prints, which is user friendly but I just like the final product of a book better. I especially like the 8 X 8 size.

I started a 12 X 12 scrapbook for the mountains and created pages at persnickety prints. I probably will finish it (at least for the year that I started it). From now on, I’m waiting for specials and creating 8 X 8 or 8 1/2 X 11 books.

Groupon always has deals for different sites.

Momentum on Monday was a big help in finishing this project-also the deadline for the offer. I think without my mini commitment on Monday, though, I might have put it off or forgotten about it altogether.

WELCOME 2013!

2012 was a hard year but a lot of good things happened, too.I’m never ready to start the new year fresh on January 1. It takes me about a month to decide what I might want to work on or toward. I also like to clear some clutter and organize. I hope to write more in the new year but never at the expense of living in the moment. I hope to post about my mom’s big move, becoming rental property owners, my experience with designing an IKEA kitchen and some other things that happened in 2012. But for now, I wanted to get my Christmas post off the top of the home screen.

For the 2nd year, we rang in the new year with friends whose son played basketball and baseball with Luke. Even though they don’t have other children the same age as mine, everyone loves their company. They are fun and laid back and bring the most genius game ever invented based on NCAA basketball. It takes concentration, luck and the tiniest bit of strategy. Chris (the mom) won it all with her favorite team, Penn State, on Dec 30. I never thought I’d witness a person win the championship. I won it all with Holy Cross on Dec 31! Winning the Championship is rare so it was fun for both of us to do it in the same weekend.

Here are some images from our snowy few days there…..

Our neighbor cleared our lane so we could get up the driveway but by Sunday morning, the drifts covered it again. He ended up clearing it 2 more times.
Games all weekend
 
We also brought my niece who was great company, too
 
Mark and Adam bundled up to play. The temp was 5 degrees plus the wind
Kate and Mae practiced ping-pong all weekend. They decided they didn’t like to vs each other.
 
Ok, this is just a view from the kitchen table into the living room. We have moved and purged furniture a few times to open up the space and to make it as functional as possible. We talked about building a breakfast bar where this table is but I think this works better. Mark’s dad built this little table which doubles as a super uncomfortable high, straight-backed bench.
 
Our neighbor really made it possible for us to get up there. 
 
Before the draft. I think this was the game I won. I had a good feeling about this game when I picked Holy Cross (randomly out of the bag). My dad wanted me to go there and loved the school. He used to play them when he played for Duquesne. I just missed a scholarship when a recruit who had initially turned one down changed her mind at the last minute-at least that’s what the coach told my dad but I really wasn’t good enough to play D1. It would have been hard for me to go there-even with a scholarship, so things worked out. As a side note, I played Duquesne as a non-conference game in my schedule-so I was feeling good about winning it all.
 
 
 
Adam is like a polar bear cub in the snow
 
 
 
Hannah
Sorry about the goofy look on Luke’s face someone’s eyes were closed in all the other photos
 
Happy New Year…I HOPE!
 
 

“Spaghetti Wednesday”~Our Family’s Thanksgiving Tradition

I love Thanksgiving and our family’s tradition of having my family over the night before Thanksgiving for a spaghetti dinner. We call it “Spaghetti Wednesday” and everyone’s available. Nobody looked forward to this day more than my dad. I miss him. So, grateful and sad at the same time.

Mark, holding court during the kids’ dinner
Hannah, the surly teenager
3 of the brothers..so funny
my youngest brother and me….that is totally not my normal hair color…oh well
maybe the funniest brother. Smart as anyone I know-except my other brothers-really.
My mom hosted dessert a few houses down to debut her new apartment. It looked beautiful.
Happy Thanksgiving.

I’m a TERRIBLE blogger in the hopes of not being a TERRIBLE mother

Well, a lot of life has been happening here.We’ve had birthdays, home sales, broken bones, injured shoulders, yard sales and much, much more!

Kate and Luke have finally gotten through the ATROCIOUS waste of time that was the “introduction to cyberschooling”. That was seriously hellacious. Sorry for the swear word.

After 10 years of homeschooling, my tolerance for time-wasting is ZERO. So, no, I don’t have the patience for a 3 hour “introduction to online learning” class which is mandatory (that doesn’t count toward school days-just sayin’) then in the first week, nearly every teacher has a series of graded activities that repeat that information. Tears everywhere. I was literally running up and down the stairs and completely abandoned Mark for the first 2 weeks. He’ll be fine, he’s plugging along in math, reading real books and practicing spelling and trying his best to care about cursive. His cursive is award-worthy….if only he could do it without a model….please don’t tell him. I’m not freaking out about it because he can sign his name and I’m told by a lot of parents that elementary schools aren’t really even teaching cursive anymore or considering ditching it. That’s a big BOOOOO from me. I really believe important brain connections are happening when pencil or pen meets paper, I think those kids will be cheated.

Fall is here. My patio was carpeted with leaves for a few days and it was bugging Mark (little). We cleared them today but looking at the beautiful tree that is responsible, I’m not sure our work today mattered.

As I do yard work, I seriously envy my neighbors that can make their yards look so clean and manicured, spend about 1 minute wishing I was like that and then I realize that MY life doesn’t work like that. I have a constant goal to purge and simplify to make maintenance possible and enjoyable but we’re not there yet and life is happening, so I don’t get upset.

Congratulations to Hannah. The kid has worked so hard to make tennis and school coexist. She’s gotten a little ink here and here and she deserves it! But the press doesn’t really even phase her. One of her good friends from tennis was the “cover girl” for a feature article today about athletes who play more than one sport in the same season and I actually think she was more excited for her.

Maybe I’ll post sometime about the whirlwind that has been our purchase of investment property in our neighborhood for my mom to occupy. That’s been fun.

 

Summer Project

needle and thREAD

The kids are finished with school and they are at an age now that I’m no longer their cruise director. Don’t get me wrong, I’d love to take them different places during the days but their range of age makes them variably interested in things so I just leave their entertainment up to them.

That leaves me extra time to focus on a few house projects. I started recovering my porch cushions in March but was undecided about the fabric. I interrupted that project to recover my friends’ porch cushions.( I mentioned that here). Although my color scheme was different, I poached my friend’s pattern for the settee and stuck with stripes in the same color pallete for the chairs. It looks way better in the deep red that she chose. To be honest, my combo looks kind of blah but it’s way better than my worn out, cat-pee, old cushions. Since I’m not LOVING the combo, I decided to save time by not bothering with piping on the chair cushions. The cushions are good enough. It does brighten up the porch a little and I’ll finish accessorizing and do something about the drab indoor/outdoor rug situation later in the summer.

Here’s what my chairs looked like before….

From a distance, this set actually looks kind of neat and simple. Then you get up close and uuhhh (shoulder shudder)… these cushions were GROSS! Like I said, at the end of last season, I’m pretty sure a cat or some other neighborhood nocturnal creature or (even grosser) some nocturnal neighborhood teenager….peed on the couch. Even aside from that nastiness, they were just done. Stained, misshapen and tired.
Here they are after….

Pretty nice-huh? I was a kind of psycho about lining up the stripes on the tops and sides. It didn’t waste too much fabric and I don’t think I’d be as particular with a pattern.

I recycled the guts and the zippers. Fair warning, I still probably spent about $10-$20 on each cushion. I found that the densified foam inside was washable. I also was surprised to find that the foam was 2 inches with 2 layers of densified foam on either side. These cushions are 4-5 inches thick and very comfortable. If I ever make cushions from scratch again, I’d use this method for the insides.

Here’s a photo to show you the insides… I think the densified foam makes the cushions dry faster if they get wet. I was surprised that the yellow foam was in good condition and didn’t smell like mildew or cat pee in spite of having gotten wet or damp plenty of times over the years that I’ve had the set.

I purchased this porch furniture at Target about 6 years ago after my wicker furniture fell apart. It’s held up very well and it’s sturdy and comfortable. We have brought it inside for winters and that’s probably helped.

Finally, here’s a photo of the cushions I did for the settee. Can you see why I didn’t want all stripes? I’m still convinced of that but the pattern in this color pallette isn’t doing much for me. Although the color scheme on the selvedge of each pattern (floral and stripes) matched, I don’t think the cushions really coordinate-BOO! They’re acceptable, though. I’m not really a perfectionist in case you couldn’t tell that from my other posts.
And a shot with the chair to show you what I mean about the fabrics not really coordinating. Oh well.

I did my friend’s cushions because I wanted to practice. I found out that while I’m getting better at this skill, I don’t have a passion for it. I would not want to do it as a business. It is tedious and time consuming. I’d be happy to do a box cushion here and there for a friend but 6 is A LOT OF TIME! I was happy to do it for a lot of reasons. Just saying, this will not be my new venture.

So that’s what I’ve been up to around the house….now for what I’ve been reading…..

I just finished Stephanie Nielson’s memoir, “Heaven is Here”and really loved it. That seems like a weird thing to say about a story which chronicles a young mother’s recovery from a tragic and near-death plane crash but I really loved it. It was well-written, so relatable, sometimes painfully and brutally honest but completely endearing and inspiring. I was pleasantly surprised that it wasn’t just a rewrite of blog posts that I’d already read (though I wouldn’t have blamed her for doing that). My friend, Alicia (Hi Alicia!) always passes along good books and this was no exception.

I was surprised that more than her struggles as a mother, I was most touched by the tenderness and attention her siblings provided to make her well. I guess I wasn’t surprised that her parents or husband or even her sisters did everything they could to help, but her brothers were so sweet and nurturing and I truly could see each of my brothers taking care of me that way if I ever faced a crisis. I guess I know it because they were so kind, gentle and attentive with my dad when he lost his leg four years ago and before he died this spring. (I know I haven’t written about that-a little too raw still). I’m so proud of all of them and feel blessed that they have my back.

Be sure to check out Elizabeth Foss’ blog for more inspiration on good reads and fun projects.

That’s what I’ve been up to. I love summer!

Finally Summer

I didn’t mind opening up my home page and seeing that silly picture of Kate. Nobody reads this blog so I know nobody else minded but I figured it’s time for a fresh start.

Hannah finally finished her first year of public school. Aside from the last full week when they literally DID NOTHING!, she really loved it. In spite of the huge change in every way (having to get up at 6:00 every a.m., long commute, being with lots of people every day, homework, textbooks and did I mention the long commute?), she really handled it like a champ. It was as though she had been going to school 45 miles away her whole life.

For my part, getting her to and from the bus stop was an easy transition but it was great to wake up on Monday morning and be free of it for a while. Academically, I had very little involvement. She was very independent and I would just check to see that her grades were fine. She shared projects with me and would suggest stories that she thought the other kids would like in her Literature textbook. But other than that, I was hands-off. If that makes me a horrible mother, yay me.

The night before her last day I asked her if she could remember how she felt the night before her first day and she simply said, “Ready”. I felt the same way. It may sound cold but I was not emotional when she made the change because I was excited for her. I thought the school was the perfect fit for her and it really was. She rocked it in every way. Her teachers loved her, she excelled in her classes and she got along with EVERYBODY in her class, on her bus and anyone she came in contact with from other classes. In situations when she stepped in to protect kids who were being picked on, the picker-onners backed down. I didn’t get the impression that they were afraid of Hannah (the kid’s thin as a rail) but like and respect her so much that they complied.

So overall, Hannah’s public school experience has been extremely positive. Kate would love to follow in her footsteps and the school will introduce a 7th grade program next year but she’s not quite ready. She’s intending to apply for her 8th grade year.

Way to go, Hannah! Enjoy your summer! I have a feeling the next 4 years will be a blur.

IF I CAN DO IT…..SEW can you!

Make cushions, that is.I made some box cushions for our old wooden couch in the mountains last summer.

Here’s a quick “before” photo.

Blech.
We lived with these waaaay too long. No part of these cushions were salvageable.
I purchased 5″ in thick foam from JoAnn’s when it was on sale-still expensive-and cut it to size with an electric carving knife.
I didn’t realize until recovering my porch furniture cushions this summer that a better option would have been to buy thinner foam (2″ would have been fine) and put 2 layers of densified foam on either side of that for a softer, more comfortable and relaxed cushion.
Here are the cushions after:
Nicer and neater. Though, I think I should have left the wood wood. I still have to distress it. These cushions have zippers and piping. I am no expert and really tackling this project just takes some brain overload when your trying to piece the parts of the fabric and panels together. Once all the pieces are cut, zippers in their panels and piping prepared, each cushion takes less than an hour to sew.
I’ll post to the great tutorials that I relied on in another post. I just want to get this posted real quick so I can link to Elizabeth Foss’ sewing sharing post. I find these type of things so inspiring and had it not been for other bloggers posting about adventures in DIY, I would never have attempted to make these.
This summer, I’m working on my porch cushions, which I interrupted in order to make cushions for a friend. I learned something new when I took apart her previously professionally-made cushions….NO FOAM at all. Inside were just layers of densified foam….Go figure. This just proves that anything goes in upholstery.
What I hope you gain from this post is just plain inspiration. GO FOR IT! If you want any specific tips about different parts of such a project, email me or post a comment. I’ll try to help.
Here’s a photo of one of the completed cushions that I’m working on for my friend:
This is my porch couch. Notice the stain on my old cushion…I think a cat peed on them last year. But the densified foam inside is machine washable.
Here’s a photo showing the zipper and some detail on the side to protect/hide the zipper ends:
I love the fabric my friend picked out. It is outdoor canvas. I think I may have to steal the idea and we’ll have twin porches. She couldn’t find a plain fabric for the piping but found a nice stripe that coordinates beautifully.
Elizabeth doesn’t have a linky party but go check out the comments to this post to get some more inspiration.

Freezer Update (Energy Savings)

Remember when I decommissioned and sold my upright freezer back in December? It was an impulsive decision but I was curious as to whether I would notice a difference in our electric bill.I can’t say I noticed a huge difference in December and January in terms of the dollar amount from previous months but it’s clear our “usage” of kWh is definitely less. In February, our bill was about $74 compared to about $100 in 3 previous months. We just got our bill for March yesterday (due April 10) and it’s $69.

Next, I went back and compared recent bills (after I got rid of the freezer) to the same months in 2011 (Jan-April). In January 2011, our bill was $130.88 compared to January 2012 ($101). In Feb. 2011, the bill was $138.82 compared to $101 again in Feb 2012. (I thought it was weird that the bills were identical in those 2 months-but that’s irrelevant). In March, 2011, our bill was $105.42 compared to $74. Finally, we paid $92.84 in April 2011 compared to $69 for this year.

Based on electric bills from the years before I got the freezer (consistently under $100), I was expecting to save about $25 per month and I’m thinking that’s about right.

We did switch suppliers sometime in the summer and that might account for a small difference in the bills but would not account for the savings in usage. I calculate roughly a 20% difference in usage since we haven’t had the freezer. One other disclosure…I imposed a screen fast during lent. The kids do watch some movies as a family but everyone’s viewing, including mine and Mark’s is significantly lower. I’m sure that accounts for the approximate $5 savings between Feb and March. That’s actually surprising. Wonder how much it would be if the desktop was turned off most of the day and night. It’s usually on sleep but still plugged in.

A note about living without a freezer aside from the energy savings. I actually think it’s liberating. There are a very few things that I like to freezer (extra spaghetti sauce and meatballs, cookie dough balls, muffin batter) but I honestly can live without doing all of those things. It’s actually less imposing making one batch of sauce rather than enough for 6 meals. I prefer working with 1-2 lbs of ground meat rather than 6. I can live without frozen cookie dough and muffin batter.

When I had the luxury of the freezer, I tended to waste more and even spend more weekly on food. I’d prepare more food than we needed, throw it in the freezer and about half the time, not get around to using it in a timely manner.

 

One of the Best Books I’ve EVER Read!

And I’ve read A LOT of books!

My friend and neighbor shared a book with me that I think she just knew would be right up my alley. “7- an experimental mutiny against excess” by Jen Hatmaker chronicles a social experiment in which the author chooses 7 areas in her life which she (and her “Council” of besties) decide could use some pruning. (What sparks this is a great story in itself and she tells it very well, so I won’t try). Hatmaker focuses on one area a month for 7 months. Her “council” helps define the boundaries and terms and overall provides an excellent support system during her experiment. They even participate during each month in their own ways. In addition, the author’s husband joins her and with the exception of the food and clothing fast, her children also “participate” (read-are forced to go along-4 weeks without and xbox-say what?!)

Not enjoying the level of wealth that the author has, I can’t say that my areas of excess are identical but I definitely could relate to most of them.

The best thing about the book is Jen’s (yes, I’m acting like I know her now because I feel like I do) sense of humor and smart writing. She is so funny, I’d invite her to a family party.

The recommendation came at an excellent time, too. I always try to implement some practice during lent that allows me to retreat a tad. I don’t anticipate implementing the experiment but it makes a great case for serious fasting in specific areas during lent as a way to create margins for God’s will. I’ll admit, committing to an actual fast of say, food, scares me because I just think I’d fail. My understanding of it, though, is that it is an excellent way to shed non-essentials in order to get to the essential. That’s a fancy way of saying hear God or the Holy Spirit.

Jen also makes a case for “loving your neighbor as yourself” by personally serving the poor in your community. Pushing the envelope of comfort. I have always wanted to but at the same time been extremely intimidated by serving in a personal way. I know it sounds wierd, I know I’m not explaining it well but I’ve wanted to serve people and make a connection but I think fear and discomfort has kept me from pursuing it. Also, the thought that a person in need would view my attempts to serve as condescending or patronizing. Let me swoop in, drop off a bag of groceries or slap some food on your plate, feel good about myself and never see you again. Shudder! I think it takes a value-based commitment on the part of the whole family to serve in such a way. Something that Mark and I instill as an important part of who we are and what we do. To avoid the “swoop-in” scenario, serving does take commitment.

For his homily at the Mass for Ash Wednesday, our priest read from his breviary because he was so struck by the readings that morning. He emphasized that this isn’t the Church imposing rules, it is God.

This, rather, is the fasting that I wish: releasing those bound unjustly, untying the thongs of the yoke;
Setting free the oppressed, breaking every yoke;
Sharing your bread with the hungry, sheltering the oppressed and the homeless;
Clothing the naked when you see them, and not turning your back on your own.
Then your light shall break forth like the dawn and your wound shall quickly be healed.
Then you shall call and the Lord will answer, you shall cry for help and he will say: 
Here I am!


Isiah 58:6-9

Heck, even if you don’t think the Bible is inspired writing from God, who can argue with THAT?

Not coincidentally, the week after I finished reading the book which was the week leading up to lent, the Mass readings were from the letters of St. James in which he makes no bones about Christians serving the poor, the orphans, widows and acting Christ-like. Just like Jen, I’m not preaching here, just admitting my shortcomings in this area and my failure as a parent to give the kids opportunities to serve in a meaningful way.

Do yourself a favor and read that book!

Finding Cash!

Well, I fell about  $30 short of my “craigslist” goal in Jaunuary. As I wrote before, I’m totally fine with that. I still feel like I found about seventy bucks in the basement (selling things that I either didn’t purchase or that we haven’t used in YEARS). One thing that I sold this month was something that I was hoping to recover some value for but I’m satisfied with the transaction. It is still out of my house!On the other hand, and I’m not sure I mentioned this in detail, I’ve been paid a total of $43.00 for books that I’ve unloaded on Amazon. Not bad, considering 2 were books that I purchased to read myself and knew I wouldn’t reread. Another was one I picked up on the library cart for .50, intending to read it, then decided it was too depressing…sold that one for about $6 and the last was a copy of a book that’s near and dear to my heart….Real Learning, Education in the Heart of My Home by Elizabeth Foss. I picked it up at our local homeschool conference’s used book sale for $4 thinking that one of my homeschool friends could use it. Everyone was covered so I finally sold it. I was happy to pass it along for about $10. It is a treasure.

FYI, I’ve sold books on ebay’s “half.com” and just recently started listing titles on Amazon. I think “half” only keeps a small percentage of the shipping fee, while amazon takes a small commission on the sale. I really think the exposure is better at amazon and I’ve had more action there.

It’s very easy to list books on both sites and hasn’t been a huge time investment.

I’m satisfied with my efforts to make some extra fun money selling things I’m no longer using. If anyone’s interested, I’ll post a few tips about selling books on Amazon or Ebay soon.

I’m also researching just doing it directly from my blog and adding a paypal or google checkout button. I have to look into that, though. The only benefit is avoiding the commission but I’m not sure you can’t beat the exposure on Amazon or Half. (I’m no “Pioneer Woman”)

As always, I’ll keep you posted.